Hello fellas, I’m happy to meet you again today. How are you today?
Fellas, as non-native speakers, have you ever felt stuck and confused in the middle of a conversation? Especially since the conversation is done in English.
Sometimes, when we meet with international friends, we must keep a conversation going to give them sufficient details about us. However, when we feel confused because we don’t know what to say, the conversation will stop.
“Did you have a good weekend?”
“Yes, I did. You?”
“Yeah, it was good.”
The conversation will stop because there is no natural way to continue it. A brief conversation with strangers are fine from time to time, but if it is someone we know, a longer chat will be expected.
Here is how to keep a conversation going:
1. Ask questions and start with 5W + 1H (What, Who, Where, When, Why, How). Avoid yes or no questions.
2. Answer the questions with elaborated details that will help you continue the conversations.
3. Try interesting topics such as family, hobbies, sports, movie, TV shows, culture, music, recent events, travelling, or interesting places in the city where you live. Avoid such topics as religion, politics, sex life, personal finance, or health issues.
Check this long conversation as an example:
James: “Hey, Rachel, how was your weekend?”
Rachel: “Pretty good! I went to a baseball game with my brother.”
James: “Really? What teams were playing?”
Rachel: “The Red Sox and The Yankees. We are huge Yankees fans!”
James: “Yeah? How was the game?”
Rachel: “Very exciting. It was tied until the last minutes, and then we won 2-1.”
You can see from the example that both persons tried to keep the conversation going. James asked questions and Rachel answered enthusiastically.
To have a good conversation in English with your international friends, a regular practice is necessary. That is all for today, fellas! If you have questions about this or previous sessions, don’t hesitate to mention us.
Hopefully today’s topic could help you brush up your English conversation skill. See you tomorrow!